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post #141 of 159
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Another update on how Dean is doing. Some might be a repeat with the doctor stuff. The biggest news is that he had an EEG last week and it is normal.

Overall, Dean is doing quite well. He is growing and gaining weight just fine. He has had no seizure activity that we have seen, and he is a fabulous night time sleeper (usually 9 p.m. to 5:30 a.m.).

The physical therapist sees us 2 times per month. Dean did have tight muscle tone, but we have pretty much worked through that. His movements are still somewhat "jittery"--especially his arms. But, that is a lot better than it used to be. The P.T. is helping make sure he meets his developmental milestones.

Dean does have a developmental delay with his vision. He saw the pediatric ophthalmologist at 11 weeks old and at that time he was tracking and visually acting more like a 4-6 week old. It is still hard to get Dean to track and look at something in particular, but he is doing a lot better in the past 5 weeks. His eyes are physically put together correctly, so we pray that he is just a bit of a late bloomer with his vision. We will see the eye doctor again in late July.

Dean had another EEG last week and we are very pleased that it is COMPLETELY NORMAL!! This does not mean that the brain damage is gone (we can only see that with an MRI), but all areas of his brain are active--which they were NOT while he was in the NICU. He will take 1/2 of his phenobarbital dose for the next month, and then stop the medicine completely on June 8.

There are 20 skills on the 3 month milestone checklist and Dean can do 17 of them. Two that he can't do are related to his vision--so hopefully he'll catch up later. The other thing is that he doesn't smile like he should. He does smile sometimes, but not as much as he should. Maybe he is just a laid back, thoughtful guy, or maybe since his vision is delayed, he'll smile more when he sees something to smile about. It would be nice to have him smile at us more. His language skills are a month or 2 ahead of schedule. Yes, we're pretty good talkers around here.

We are very pleased with his progress, but we still worry a lot. We just have to wait and see how he develops in the next year and pray for the best. Thank you so much for all of your support and keep up the prayers.

CK
post #142 of 159
We are all pryaing for you and your family. Best whishes!
post #143 of 159
Wow CK I'm so glad to hear Dean is progressing well
post #144 of 159
Thats great CK, glad to hear that he is doing well.

-Mark
post #145 of 159
Indeed, thanks for keeping us updated, CK! Great news for the little guy, you, and your family!
post #146 of 159
Good to hear Dean is progressing well, CK! Thanks for the update.
post #147 of 159
Hearts, thoughts, and prayers out to the little guy ....
post #148 of 159
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Thanks every one.
post #149 of 159
I continue to be amazed by Dean, and you and your wife CK. He couldn't have been born into a better family. Keep giving him the stimulation you are and I'm sure he'll continue to develop. It's just amazing what the human body is capable of overcoming at that age.

I'm very happy to hear the EEG was normal, and that he's progressing well.

I'm not a praying type of guy, but I'll continue to keep you all in my thoughts and send you special Hammerhead brainwaves for the big tests coming up...

I have to say I'm also very impressed with your seeming ability not to let this whole situation get you down. I know with dealing with my health issues of late that when you're in the middle of the situation, you really don't have much choice than dealing with what comes your way, but looking forward instead of dwelling on the "what ifs" really helps. I have no doubts you and your family have experienced some pretty upsetting lows during this process, but continuing to be optimistic is the best way to get through this both for you and Dean. Doesn't seem optimism is in short supply in your household though...

Maybe Dean isn't smiling so much because you won't let him use your Alienware travel mug...
post #150 of 159
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Originally Posted by Hammerhead
Maybe Dean isn't smiling so much because you won't let him use your Alienware travel mug...
I do anything for my wife and kids, but that is where I draw the line. My mug. MINE!

hehehehe...
post #151 of 159
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Holy crap. It's been over a year since I posted in this thread. Sorry to those of you who I left in the dark.

Let see.... Dean is now 18 mo. He is doing very well and the only lasting problem from his brain injury is a visual problem. He was diagnosed with Cortical Visual Imparment which is a catch all diagnosis for undefined visual problems. It means that the eyes are properly formed, but there is a problem with the conection from the eyes to the brain. The visual therapist likens it to looking at the world through swiss cheese. It also seems that the problem is mostly limited to his right eye. He also has a block in his lower field of vision - more like not having lower peripheral vision. This has led to a delay in his fine motor skills, but his fine motor skills are improving over time. We only need worry if he stops progressing or regresses. He is beginning to talk which is another big milestone. He uses signs for many things and we are now trying to get him to use words instead. His gross motor skills - walking, stairs, running, etc. - are above average. He climbs anything and everything he can to his big brother's delight. We saw the neurologist last week and he is pleased with Dean's progress. The nuerologist doesn't see any signs of cerebral palsy so we may have passed that concern. Also, autism is a concern, but there aren't any signs so we'll put that in the back of our minds for a while. We went over the overt signs to look for, but given Dean's social nature, I don't think it is a concern.

Thanks to everyone for their throughts and prayers for him, and sorry for the long delay in an update.
post #152 of 159
Should be made a sticky. Glad to hear he is doing good now. I have a 6 month old girl and I would go CRAZY if anything ever happened to her. My prayers are with you and your family
post #153 of 159
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Thanks, tate.

This was a sticky. But given my lapse in poting here I can understand why it is no longer.
post #154 of 159
It has to be a great joy to watch the little guy progress ; and hopefully he will continue to progress. Nothing so special as your own child. Best of luck to you, your family, and especially for Dean . . . .
post #155 of 159
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Originally Posted by RedDogMan View Post
It has to be a great joy to watch the little guy progress ; and hopefully he will continue to progress. Nothing so special as your own child. Best of luck to you, your family, and especially for Dean . . . .
Glad to hear all is well.
post #156 of 159
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Thanks all.
post #157 of 159
Good to hear about that ! Think positive and it will happen! My thoughts and prayers are with Dean and you and your wife!
post #158 of 159
Thanks for the update CK and know your son has been on my prayer list a long time. I'm glad things have turned out so well for him.
post #159 of 159
Good news, CK!
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