You cannot recreate your own HRTF's unless you create a 100% accurate model of your own head and ear canals. We can get pretty close with an approximation.
Did you check the Binaural sample I gave you the link to? You have to use headphones when you play that - any headphone will give you awesome results...
I havent tried those dolby cans because I prefer musical headphones. I'll let software do the magic on my headphones with games.
You can make your own hardware for HRTF's which are ultimately delay + attenuation + frequency modulation + crossfeed -> If you can come up with an equation for your head

Alternatively ou can design a system with trim-pots that can be fine tuned to each individuals head - difficult but possible...you got me thinking here...
