Alright seeing as how it looks like I won't be able to sell my notebook I'll do the trade. If you want you can even mail me your notebook and I could do it for you and mail your notebook back to you. I know this may sound like alot, but My rep is perfect on these boards. I would also AS5 everything for you as well, the processor and the videocard.
That's one option, the second option is you basically send me your processor along with a paypal payment or check for 180 and I'll mail you back my processor as soon as I get it. and then you can drop in my processor. Whatever fits the bill.