I believe the Antenna connecotrs are marked 1, 2, and 3.
As far as adding the third antenna, try ebay search for U.FL you see various antennas with the U.FL connecotr on them.
You can install the antenna in the base or if you get an antenna with a long enough cable run it up into the display aong with the other 2.
Last. Drivers if it is a Dell card try searching Dells site for the driver using the model of laptop the card is found in.
You should also be able to locate the drivers from the manufacter's site such as Intel etc.