No, the 945PM chipset that's in the XPS M1710 cannot, and will never be able to, address 4GB of RAM, regardless of your OS.
It's a hardware limitation, as the 945PM chipset, used in the 9400/E1705, M90, and M1710, also used a 32-Bit only CPU, the Core Duo, it isn't built with that support. It sucks, horribly (especially for people, like me, who have 4GB of RAM, but see "only" 3.25GB, even in a 64-bit OS) but there's nothing you can do about it short of getting a Santa Rosa (PM965 chipset) laptop.