I know about this chipset and many DeLL owners are very mad. It does not support 4GB. Yes you can install and yes it will work. and yes XP SP3 will show 4GB but the OS will not make use of. It can't as the chipset is 32bit limited which means 4GB 2^32=4GB. So if GPU and others must take from the 4GB memory addresses I mentioned how could the RAM then make use of the same memory addresses? It can't and that is the limitation that cannot be overcome. Unless this is not the 945 chipset/Napa platform this is a closed issue.
Memory addresses are used by more than just RAM. As such the sum cannot exceed the 4GB max. So RAM cannot be 4GB. It is the same limitation a 32bit OS faces but in the chipset.


OS/BIOS nothing can overcome the limitation. No not even PAE for anyone asking.