I found my graphics card solution, just need to solve my CPU problem.
my laptop is the dv6-3210us
with a AMD Phenom II N660 dual core
I looked at AMD's CPU comparisons, and I'm wondering if my laptop could take in the Phenom II Black Edition X940 Quad Core.
everything seems compatible, just a 10W difference between the 2 processors, wondering if that will be too much of a difference.