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post #21 of 92
3/4/05 at 4:05pm
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Originally Posted by monkeybutler
True, but you missed the most important point. 3rd world country girls are after Money, Money and Family. And you have to remember that "family" in other cultures is different from "family" in america.

American "Family" - husband, wife and the kids. Your parents/brother you see on holidays and talk on the phone with once a month but the focus is on the household.

3rd World Country "Family" - Their mom, their 6 brothers and 2 sisters, their 3 aunts, grandma, great grandma and their work friends.


Notice how husbands didnt make the list. Thats because they arent important. A mans job is to support the woman and ensure she has everything she wants. And a womans job is to take care of her idea of family by making sure the kids are dressed better than their classmates, their mothers and aunts have prada handbags and their husband is fed with the tastes of their homeland. every...single...meal...of...their...life.

Ive seen it so much that people like the OP make me laugh. Most american suckers who marry girls like this are usually insecure guys who cant get dates on their own. So they latch onto the idea that they are somehow "rescuing" these helpless girls from poverty and giving them a taste of freedom. But in reality these "poor girls" are raised to latch onto the first greencard that flashes by them. And thats where you come in...


if youre thinking of hooking up with another culture then bookmark this thread. it will be a good read when youre sitting alone in the den while your wife and her family are out filling up your credit cards.
Well done! I could not put this any better. I have a couple friends who went to Europe and brought back their spouses and lets just say: what MB says above is so true. These people are always on the phone with their families back home and whenever they go on vocation its always to their respective countries to visit the in-laws. And of course sending money and such is done without question.
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post #22 of 92
3/4/05 at 4:11pm


You are truly pathetic, csware. First off, she was just flirting - and probably only because she was trying to be nice. If you tried to get in touch with her again, it's stalking.

What, you can't meet any women on your own, in the real world? And you think you have a chance with a CSR, after talking to her a grand total of ONE times, who lives several thousand miles away?

Pathetic...truly pathetic.

Go out, get a life, maybe hang out in strip clubs. Just get laid, fer chrissakes.
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post #23 of 92
3/4/05 at 4:51pm
I did almost the exact same thing about 6 years ago. Met a Phil girl in an IRC chat room. After several months of getting to know her in our virtual/long-distance love affair, I decided to travel and meet her in person then eventually brought her over to the states. Well, I guess I'm lucky cause it turned out she's a cutie and a nurse. Now let me just say that I'm an IT professional making good money. In 5 short years, my wife climbed the rank from a lowly staff nurse to the Director of Nursing at a local 120-bed nursing home. She now makes roughly 25% MORE money than me. We now have a $750K home in OC, Cal, and happily married with two little boys while my two college buddies who tried dissuade me with these third world gold-digger horror stories are both divorcees after marrying local girls. They're now paying hefty child support payments while I'm thinking of retiring by 40. I'm not saying that the same thing will happen to you. I'm only saying that these things don't always have an unhappy ending.
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post #24 of 92
3/4/05 at 5:05pm
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Originally Posted by Schembfs
I did almost the exact same thing about 6 years ago. Met a Phil girl in an IRC chat room. After several months of getting to know her in our virtual/long-distance love affair, I decided to travel and meet her in person then eventually brought her over to the states. Well, I guess I'm lucky cause it turned out she's a cutie and a nurse. Now let me just say that I'm an IT professional making good money. In 5 short years, my wife climbed the rank from a lowly staff nurse to the Director of Nursing at a local 120-bed nursing home. She now makes roughly 25% MORE money than me. We now have a $750K home in OC, Cal, and happily married with two little boys while my two college buddies who tried dissuade me with these third world gold-digger horror stories are both divorcees after marrying local girls. They're now paying hefty child support payments while I'm thinking of retiring by 40. I'm not saying that the same thing will happen to you. I'm only saying that these things don't always have an unhappy ending.

Wow. That kicks ass, lol. My opinion (and strictly my opinion, you guys probably have a shitload more experience than me with this considering I'm 15) is... GO FOR IT. Could turn out awesome, makes the risk worthwhile.
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post #25 of 92
3/4/05 at 5:45pm
so... what was her email and rep number
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post #26 of 92
3/4/05 at 6:14pm
Whether this is a true story or not this was a great thread to read through.
Going in to the week-end with a BIG smile on my face!!
Good luck man!!

D.B.1
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post #27 of 92
3/4/05 at 7:30pm
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Originally Posted by Schembfs
I did almost the exact same thing about 6 years ago. Met a Phil girl in an IRC chat room. After several months of getting to know her in our virtual/long-distance love affair, I decided to travel and meet her in person then eventually brought her over to the states. Well, I guess I'm lucky cause it turned out she's a cutie and a nurse. Now let me just say that I'm an IT professional making good money. In 5 short years, my wife climbed the rank from a lowly staff nurse to the Director of Nursing at a local 120-bed nursing home. She now makes roughly 25% MORE money than me. We now have a $750K home in OC, Cal, and happily married with two little boys while my two college buddies who tried dissuade me with these third world gold-digger horror stories are both divorcees after marrying local girls. They're now paying hefty child support payments while I'm thinking of retiring by 40. I'm not saying that the same thing will happen to you. I'm only saying that these things don't always have an unhappy ending.
Thanks for posting that. As we all can see, there are a lot of people on this board with evil intentions waiting to pull a brotha down. The fact is these people are so far down themselves they have lost hope of ever getting up again so only participate in bringing others down. Here's to not being one of those people.
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post #28 of 92
3/4/05 at 7:59pm
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Originally Posted by sonicwind
Thanks for posting that. As we all can see, there are a lot of people on this board with evil intentions waiting to pull a brotha down. The fact is these people are so far down themselves they have lost hope of ever getting up again so only participate in bringing others down. Here's to not being one of those people.
You are right. I think we should all change our views and encourage people to press their luck with 3rd world romances. Heck, it worked for that guy so why couldnt it work for everyone else? Every hospital has room for about 30-40 directors of operations so theres room for everyone.

Anyway, thanks for being so positive. Its truly a service to our country to encourage mass immigration since our cities are dangerously underpopulated. And thank you dell for outsourcing american jobs to unqualified (and potentially hot!) professionals in every country except america. Theres no better feeling than waiting 40 minutes on hold only to have to repeat your name 14 times to a guy who just learned to type 2 weeks ago.
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post #29 of 92
3/4/05 at 8:41pm
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Originally Posted by Schembfs
I did almost the exact same thing about 6 years ago. Met a Phil girl in an IRC chat room. After several months of getting to know her in our virtual/long-distance love affair, I decided to travel and meet her in person then eventually brought her over to the states. Well, I guess I'm lucky cause it turned out she's a cutie and a nurse. Now let me just say that I'm an IT professional making good money. In 5 short years, my wife climbed the rank from a lowly staff nurse to the Director of Nursing at a local 120-bed nursing home. She now makes roughly 25% MORE money than me. We now have a $750K home in OC, Cal, and happily married with two little boys while my two college buddies who tried dissuade me with these third world gold-digger horror stories are both divorcees after marrying local girls. They're now paying hefty child support payments while I'm thinking of retiring by 40. I'm not saying that the same thing will happen to you. I'm only saying that these things don't always have an unhappy ending.
Nice story!
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post #30 of 92
3/4/05 at 8:48pm
Let me guess Monkey, so your ancestors never "immigrated" to this great land, right? Hmmm, I guess they "evolved" here... from what? birds?
Seriously... the bottom line is, everybody here in our great USA are in one way or another, immigrants. Unless your ancestors, Monkey, were from England, they did not speak English as well.
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post #31 of 92
3/4/05 at 8:52pm
may I just say...that this thread is HILARIOUS
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post #32 of 92
3/4/05 at 8:57pm
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Originally Posted by monkeybutler
You are right. I think we should all change our views and encourage people to press their luck with 3rd world romances. Heck, it worked for that guy so why couldnt it work for everyone else? Every hospital has room for about 30-40 directors of operations so theres room for everyone.

Anyway, thanks for being so positive. Its truly a service to our country to encourage mass immigration since our cities are dangerously underpopulated. And thank you dell for outsourcing american jobs to unqualified (and potentially hot!) professionals in every country except america. Theres no better feeling than waiting 40 minutes on hold only to have to repeat your name 14 times to a guy who just learned to type 2 weeks ago.
Your sarcasm aside, I'm not encouraging the guy to be stupid. Our cities are dangerously over populated? There's no such thing. I'd rather be in a room full of good people than in a huge building with a psycho killer. I'm not going to go into the out sourcing thing. Just some advice to you, if you do a good job and produce honest quality work, you will have no fear of not being able to support yourself. You complain about Dell trying to find cheaper ways to support you, but you'll sure take their great deal when you want to buy one won't you. Why don't you boycott Dell if it's so important to you?
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post #33 of 92
3/4/05 at 9:24pm
Thread Starter 
just some update for those who have replied. Whether it was a negative or a postive feed back, i do appreciate all of your inputs and thoughts.

however, I do wish to comment on few things. Some of you have claimed that I should get a life, go out more, be cool, go to strip clubs, get laid, and what not. well allow me to tell you a little something about myself since some of you have questioned my lifestyle. Firstly, I AM a very sociable 21year old guy going to a university near NYC. I DO go out, I do get drunk and hook up with random chicks at parties, I DO go to strip clubs, in fact I went to a strip club in Queens the other night with my buddies and got a stripper's number just for shits and giggles. Am I a player? maybe, probably not. Am I going to call her? no i'm not. I flirted with her out of my horny drunken stupidity. I've recently gotten out from a 2 year relationship because I cheated on my girl friend and out of guilty concience I came clean and told her directly the next morning which eventually led to our break up.

So where am I getting at with all these useless informations which some of you can careless about? Those of you that were nice enough to hint that I'm a loser, pathetic or what not, I really dont think I deserve to be called those things simply because I had a some fun speaking to a dell customer representative. because with all the good intentions in this world, I was simply interested in having another female friend whom i can go visit and hangout, but ceratinly, I sure as hell didnt want any of you getting upset over my post. So there is no need for angst, bitterness, and bitching because I flirted with a dell customer rep from another country.
yes, let me put an end to this story, I emailed the customer rep department requesting her email address and NOT to my surprise, she emailed right back to me this morning directly from her OWN email address that is not @dell.com No, I will not be disclosing her information as i know some of you here will be sending her hate mails and all sorts of nasty comments.

But that's all besides the point. Last time I checked, I dont ever recall mentioning anything about her being the "one," or saying that I wanted to marry her. I'm a very simple man with very basic needs. Someone mentioned that all this was a "risk," and even went on to give detailed descriptions of possible scenerios that might happen to me. But someone please help me out here, just exactly what RISK IS THERE? For the second time, I'll say this again. I'm going to Phillipine next summer to visit my aunt in Manilla ANY WAY. I'll be visiting her at her newly built multi million dollar mansion by her privately owned beach to get drunk and just have good time bar hopping, sight seeing and shpping like a giggling girl because everything els overthere is cheaper than here in the states.(btw, i'm not rich, my aunt is otherwise I wouldn't be here with you guys searching for coupons!! lol) Worst comes, I'll give her a call to go out clubbing with me one night, buy her few drinks and see what she's like, and if she aint all that, i'll simply say, "it was ****ing nice seeing you in person. ADIOS" OR
she'll be hot, and if she's at all interested in me and wants to be friends, then i'll be happy that i made another friend on the other side of the world whom I know i can jus call up and chill whenver i visit. No i'm not gonna bring her back to get married, I'm a fuking college student with a pathetic part time job at Sears who's still pissed off because I missed out on the october's 750 deal!

I do apologize for the hostility in this post and I sincerely do hope that some of you guys will learn to chill out oneday and learn not to jump to conclusions. GG.

now I'm gonna go write back to her before she thinks I completely forgot about her. Better yet, just can you imagine what she must be thinking if she happens to be a member at this forum?

And to those of you that were kind enough to encourage me in my little venture, , i admit it was hard and frustrating at first, but congradulate me to my success. I already got her full contact information. my mission is accomplished. perhaps one day when I do meet her in person, I'll come back to this forum full of pictures and joy because I had a such great ****ing time with a dell customer rep from Phillipines that became my friend on March 4th, 2005.

best regards,
Csware.
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post #34 of 92
3/4/05 at 10:07pm
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Originally Posted by littleastrostar
may I just say...that this thread is HILARIOUS
And I think that girl in your avatar is hot
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post #35 of 92
3/4/05 at 10:10pm
csware, thanks for sharing your story. I trust your trip to PI is enjoyable. Good luck!
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post #36 of 92
3/4/05 at 10:21pm
Thread Starter 
don't hype me up just yet, it won't be for awhile! i have to graduate first. but thank you very much sir.
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post #37 of 92
3/4/05 at 11:48pm
maybe she's really hidious? haha j/k
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post #38 of 92
3/5/05 at 12:33am
LOL...the girl in my avatar is NELLY FURTADO ala "I'm like a Bird" fame....

why does everyone assume that it's me?!
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post #39 of 92
3/5/05 at 12:34am
there I fixed it...
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post #40 of 92
3/5/05 at 12:36am
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Originally Posted by littleastrostar
... FURTADO ..
How do you pronounce that ? Fart..
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