just some update for those who have replied. Whether it was a negative or a postive feed back, i do appreciate all of your inputs and thoughts.
however, I do wish to comment on few things. Some of you have claimed that I should get a life, go out more, be cool, go to strip clubs, get laid, and what not. well allow me to tell you a little something about myself since some of you have questioned my lifestyle. Firstly, I AM a very sociable 21year old guy going to a university near NYC. I DO go out, I do get drunk and hook up with random chicks at parties, I DO go to strip clubs, in fact I went to a strip club in Queens the other night with my buddies and got a stripper's number just for shits and giggles. Am I a player? maybe, probably not. Am I going to call her? no i'm not. I flirted with her out of my horny drunken stupidity. I've recently gotten out from a 2 year relationship because I cheated on my girl friend and out of guilty concience I came clean and told her directly the next morning which eventually led to our break up.
So where am I getting at with all these useless informations which some of you can careless about? Those of you that were nice enough to hint that I'm a loser, pathetic or what not, I really dont think I deserve to be called those things simply because I had a some fun speaking to a dell customer representative. because with all the good intentions in this world, I was simply interested in having another female friend whom i can go visit and hangout, but ceratinly, I sure as hell didnt want any of you getting upset over my post. So there is no need for angst, bitterness, and bitching because I flirted with a dell customer rep from another country.
yes, let me put an end to this story, I emailed the customer rep department requesting her email address and NOT to my surprise, she emailed right back to me this morning directly from her OWN email address that is not @dell.com No, I will not be disclosing her information as i know some of you here will be sending her hate mails and all sorts of nasty comments.
But that's all besides the point. Last time I checked, I dont ever recall mentioning anything about her being the "one," or saying that I wanted to marry her. I'm a very simple man with very basic needs. Someone mentioned that all this was a "risk," and even went on to give detailed descriptions of possible scenerios that might happen to me. But someone please help me out here, just exactly what RISK IS THERE? For the second time, I'll say this again. I'm going to Phillipine next summer to visit my aunt in Manilla ANY WAY. I'll be visiting her at her newly built multi million dollar mansion by her privately owned beach to get drunk and just have good time bar hopping, sight seeing and shpping like a giggling girl because everything els overthere is cheaper than here in the states.(btw, i'm not rich, my aunt is
otherwise I wouldn't be here with you guys searching for coupons!! lol) Worst comes, I'll give her a call to go out clubbing with me one night, buy her few drinks and see what she's like, and if she aint all that, i'll simply say, "it was ****ing nice seeing you in person. ADIOS" OR
she'll be hot, and if she's at all interested in me and wants to be friends, then i'll be happy that i made another friend on the other side of the world whom I know i can jus call up and chill whenver i visit. No i'm not gonna bring her back to get married, I'm a fuking college student with a pathetic part time job at Sears who's still pissed off because I missed out on the october's 750 deal!
I do apologize for the hostility in this post and I sincerely do hope that some of you guys will learn to chill out oneday and learn not to jump to conclusions. GG.
now I'm gonna go write back to her before she thinks I completely forgot about her. Better yet, just can you imagine what she must be thinking if she happens to be a member at this forum?
And to those of you that were kind enough to encourage me in my little venture,
, i admit it was hard and frustrating at first, but congradulate me to my success. I already got her full contact information. my mission is accomplished. perhaps one day when I do meet her in person, I'll come back to this forum full of pictures and joy because I had a such great ****ing time with a dell customer rep from Phillipines that became my friend on March 4th, 2005.