Well people. I'm from Argentina (for those who don't know where that is, and I know there is such people, it is in South America). I've bought a lap through eBay for my girlfriend, and had it shipped to McAllen, TX. When I won the auction, I mailed the seller and explained him the situation. Obviously, he was reluctant to do the operation because of all the scams going around. I offered him PayPal, Escrow, BidPay, but none of those methods satisfied him. So, I told him I could pay with a WU Money Transfer, he could ship the item AFTER having the money literally in his hands. After some "comings and goings" (hehe I don't know if such an expression exists in english, but it does in spanish :P), he decided to accept it, so I made the payment, and then he sent the laptop. To sum up, we were both very happy and no one was scammed

Moral of the story is: if he is willing to wait for you to have the money in your hands before shipping, go for it. IMHO there are as much "international" scammers (international from you people from the states' point of view) as local ones...