Well I did it. I joined the ranks of the i9300 owners. 
After many frustrating e-mails where I received canned responses
not even acknowledgeing the qustion I canceled my XSP2 order.
I hope Small Business support will be more helpfull. It wont take much.
Also, I could not justify the expense since the i9300 suits my 'needs' just fine. I do prefer the look of the XPS2 and I think the lights would have been cool too.
Oh well, after all is said and done by ordering with the 35% off cupon. I saved around $1300 over what I had spent on the XPS2 for the same config. Note I did order the 962 printer also and SB has the free printer which helps bump the number. I Also got a spare battery and a spare ac adapter which i did not have before.
Old order:
XPS2 $3447.22
962 printer $181.46 (and thats with a $25 off coupon)
Total $3628.68 - $75 dell discount becaue customer service could not answer my question.
Grand Total $3553.68
New Order:
Total $2,549.27 - $130 Mail in rebate
Grand Total $2419.27
SAVED = $1134.41 + Spare 80Whr Battery and spare AC adapter.
Edit: Note All prices include tax and shipping.
Oh and as a bonus, Shipping date
Was April 12th.
Now March 21.
Gain of 22 days.
Now i gotsta edit my sig.
*****************************************************
Inspiron 9300
Intel® Pentium® M 760 Processor (2GHz/533MHz FSB), Microsoft® Windows® XP Home Edition Qty: 1
Unit Price: $3,550.00
Inspiron 9300 Intel® Pentium® M 760 Processor (2GHz/533MHz FSB)
SM2HM
[221-7311]
LCD Panel 17 inch UltraSharp™ Wide Screen UXGA Display with TrueLife™
17UXGAS
[320-4256]
Memory 1GB Dual Channel DDR2 SDRAM at 533MHz 2 Dimm
1GB2D
[311-3732]
Video Card 256MB NVIDA® GeForce™ Go 6800
256NV
[320-4185]
Hard Drive 100GB Hard Drive
100GB
[341-1809]
Power Adapter Spare AC adapter (Power Cord) - 90w
65WS
[320-4094]
Operating System Microsoft® Windows® XP Home Edition
WHXP
[412-0689]
[412-0706]
[420-4766]
[420-4830]
[420-4928]
[463-2282]
Network Card Integrated 10/100 Network Card and Modem
INTNIC
[430-0493]
Adobe Software Adobe® Acrobat® Reader 6.0
ADOBER
[430-1048]
Combo/DVD+RW Drives 8x CD/DVD burner (DVD+/-RW) with double-layer write capability
8XDVDRW
[313-3082]
[420-5111]
Wireless Networking Cards FREE! Intel® PRO/Wireless 2915 Internal Wireless (802.11 a/b/g, 54Mbps
IP2915P
[463-8482]
Productivity Software Productivity Pack including WordPerfect®
ICOREL
[412-0714]
Security Software No Security Subscription
NS
[412-0755]
Digital Music Dell Jukebox - easy-to-use music player and CD burning software
MMBASE
[412-0741]
Primary Battery 6-cell Lithium Ion Primary Battery (53 WHr)
6BAT
[312-0285]
Limited Warranty, Services and Support Options 3 Years On-site Business Standard Plan ($130 Mail in Rebate)
BSP3Y1S
[950-7820]
[950-7822]
[412-0360]
[412-0357]
[960-1937]
[960-2780]
[950-5442]
[981-3689]
Installation Services No Onsite System Setup
NOINSTL
[900-9987]
Dial-Up Internet Access No ISP requested
NISP
[412-0148]
[412-0670]
LCD/Color Kits Mediterranean Blue QuickSnap™ Cover
MEDBLUE
[310-6199]
Wireless Personal Networking Card Dell Wireless 350 Bluetooth Internal(2.0 + Enhanced Data Rate)
TM350I
[430-1188]
Additional Batteries 9-cell Lithium Ion Additional Battery (80 WHr)
9BATAD
[312-0284]
Mail- In Rebate None
NONE
[463-1832]
Financial Software QuickBooks® Simple Start Special Edition
QBSSP
[420-5136]
Purchase Intent Purchase is not intended for resale.
NOT4SEL
[462-4506]
35% off Select Inspiron NB''s $1399 and up
Expires on 2005-03-09 23:59:59 - $1,242.50
Dell All-In-One Inkjet 962
Dell All-in-One Printer 962 Qty: 1
Unit Price: $79.00
Dell All In One Inkjet 962 Dell All-in-One Printer 962
UP962
[463-5578]
Limited Warranty, Services and Support Options 1Yr Ltd. Warranty- Advance Exchange
AE1YR
[960-2840]
[960-2990]
[960-4638]
Save 25% on Dell 962 printer through the Small Business division.
Expires on 2005-03-10 06:30:00 - $19.75
Sub-Total $2,366.75
Shipping $0.00
Estimated Tax $182.52
State Environment Fee $8.00
More Info
Total $2,549.27

After many frustrating e-mails where I received canned responses
not even acknowledgeing the qustion I canceled my XSP2 order.
I hope Small Business support will be more helpfull. It wont take much.Also, I could not justify the expense since the i9300 suits my 'needs' just fine. I do prefer the look of the XPS2 and I think the lights would have been cool too.

Oh well, after all is said and done by ordering with the 35% off cupon. I saved around $1300 over what I had spent on the XPS2 for the same config. Note I did order the 962 printer also and SB has the free printer which helps bump the number. I Also got a spare battery and a spare ac adapter which i did not have before.
Old order:
XPS2 $3447.22
962 printer $181.46 (and thats with a $25 off coupon)
Total $3628.68 - $75 dell discount becaue customer service could not answer my question.
Grand Total $3553.68
New Order:
Total $2,549.27 - $130 Mail in rebate
Grand Total $2419.27
SAVED = $1134.41 + Spare 80Whr Battery and spare AC adapter.

Edit: Note All prices include tax and shipping.
Oh and as a bonus, Shipping date
Was April 12th.
Now March 21.
Gain of 22 days.
Now i gotsta edit my sig.
*****************************************************
Inspiron 9300
Intel® Pentium® M 760 Processor (2GHz/533MHz FSB), Microsoft® Windows® XP Home Edition Qty: 1
Unit Price: $3,550.00
Inspiron 9300 Intel® Pentium® M 760 Processor (2GHz/533MHz FSB)
SM2HM
[221-7311]
LCD Panel 17 inch UltraSharp™ Wide Screen UXGA Display with TrueLife™
17UXGAS
[320-4256]
Memory 1GB Dual Channel DDR2 SDRAM at 533MHz 2 Dimm
1GB2D
[311-3732]
Video Card 256MB NVIDA® GeForce™ Go 6800
256NV
[320-4185]
Hard Drive 100GB Hard Drive
100GB
[341-1809]
Power Adapter Spare AC adapter (Power Cord) - 90w
65WS
[320-4094]
Operating System Microsoft® Windows® XP Home Edition
WHXP
[412-0689]
[412-0706]
[420-4766]
[420-4830]
[420-4928]
[463-2282]
Network Card Integrated 10/100 Network Card and Modem
INTNIC
[430-0493]
Adobe Software Adobe® Acrobat® Reader 6.0
ADOBER
[430-1048]
Combo/DVD+RW Drives 8x CD/DVD burner (DVD+/-RW) with double-layer write capability
8XDVDRW
[313-3082]
[420-5111]
Wireless Networking Cards FREE! Intel® PRO/Wireless 2915 Internal Wireless (802.11 a/b/g, 54Mbps
IP2915P
[463-8482]
Productivity Software Productivity Pack including WordPerfect®
ICOREL
[412-0714]
Security Software No Security Subscription
NS
[412-0755]
Digital Music Dell Jukebox - easy-to-use music player and CD burning software
MMBASE
[412-0741]
Primary Battery 6-cell Lithium Ion Primary Battery (53 WHr)
6BAT
[312-0285]
Limited Warranty, Services and Support Options 3 Years On-site Business Standard Plan ($130 Mail in Rebate)
BSP3Y1S
[950-7820]
[950-7822]
[412-0360]
[412-0357]
[960-1937]
[960-2780]
[950-5442]
[981-3689]
Installation Services No Onsite System Setup
NOINSTL
[900-9987]
Dial-Up Internet Access No ISP requested
NISP
[412-0148]
[412-0670]
LCD/Color Kits Mediterranean Blue QuickSnap™ Cover
MEDBLUE
[310-6199]
Wireless Personal Networking Card Dell Wireless 350 Bluetooth Internal(2.0 + Enhanced Data Rate)
TM350I
[430-1188]
Additional Batteries 9-cell Lithium Ion Additional Battery (80 WHr)
9BATAD
[312-0284]
Mail- In Rebate None
NONE
[463-1832]
Financial Software QuickBooks® Simple Start Special Edition
QBSSP
[420-5136]
Purchase Intent Purchase is not intended for resale.
NOT4SEL
[462-4506]
35% off Select Inspiron NB''s $1399 and up
Expires on 2005-03-09 23:59:59 - $1,242.50
Dell All-In-One Inkjet 962
Dell All-in-One Printer 962 Qty: 1
Unit Price: $79.00
Dell All In One Inkjet 962 Dell All-in-One Printer 962
UP962
[463-5578]
Limited Warranty, Services and Support Options 1Yr Ltd. Warranty- Advance Exchange
AE1YR
[960-2840]
[960-2990]
[960-4638]
Save 25% on Dell 962 printer through the Small Business division.
Expires on 2005-03-10 06:30:00 - $19.75
Sub-Total $2,366.75
Shipping $0.00
Estimated Tax $182.52
State Environment Fee $8.00
More Info
Total $2,549.27









I restarted my order today cause I added the 7200RPM drive and upgraded the processor to 2.13ghz, I didn't really want to but I got a small gift certificate so I upgraded it and got a credit on my account, this set me back 7 days. My estimated delivery date was 04/01/05 and now it's 04/08/05. so I hope that when you guys get it you post some good reviews