plug strait into the router, assign diffrent ip addresses for your LAN jack and WLAN card
you MUST be on the same subnet as your router as in if your router is
192.168.1.1 you have to have the first 3 octects the same so your computers lan would be 192.168.1.2 and your WLAN would be 192.168.1.3
you cannot get to your router if your ip is 192.1.1.1 or 192.168.0.1 (the last one you MAY be able to but just make the first 3 octets the same 192.168.1.xx)
once you get back on your router, change the admin password, change the routers SSID to crazy charaters (#$#%h29fh4) or something, change the router;s IP address to something other than 192.168.1.1 (make it 192.168.1.69 or something) only allow your own mac address to connect and only your manualy assigned ip address to get on